“This tiny Korean man came up to me and said, ‘You got big balls. I like them.’ NYC’s ‘sex spa’ is grossing people out – NY Post I could take up the torch and fight for bi visibility and break down walls of gender expression and stereotyping, but I have my hands full just being […]
Trying to get ready for #MAL2016 and I keep fucking up my nail polish. Scooter McCreight via Twitter Strangest Oscar nomination: “Spectre” for best original song. That song sucks. One of the few times I disagree with John Gruber Jennifer Lawrence is that white girl in your biology lab who goes on ratemyprofessor to complain […]
I had lunch with a colleague today. We talked about academia, career and getting to happy. The meeting left me with more questions than answers, but it was a great time nonetheless. I paid off five credit cards last year. I’ve never had this much disposable income in my adult life. It’s weird actually. But […]
It’s after midnight. I’m watching walkingh2o post all these half naked pictures of himself. The peanut gallery is requesting dick pics. I’m good with the back shots. I think he’s drunk, maybe high. Perhaps both? A sizable chub is brewing. Marcus is one of my favorites. I’ve been watching him for close to a decade […]
I’ve been really inspired by YouTuber Casey Neistat. He recently talked about daily vlogging and how it’s gotten him to work on his craft in a different way than when he was trying to produce perfect videos. I’m guilty of the same. I’m a writer; I need to write. So I’m committing to daily weekday […]
residual Halloween mischief This piece should be called “The Down Low: It’s Not Just For Negroes Anymore” Dehrenstein via NY Mag comments “If there’s anybody out there who’s an adult and who would like to ask me out,” she says, “please call Harper’s Bazaar.” I heart Sharon Stone I’m like a swan. But not in […]
We have a problem (more like an opportunity): This blog turned six years old in July. It’s the longest I’ve ever had a blog, let alone a public one. When I started The Black Sex Master in 2009, I had just returned from San Francisco and needed a place to put the many thoughts racing […]
picture at Gawker Isn’t the point of having an affair is that you can pour champagne down someone’s ass and then drink it? good question BeyoncesNoPantsDance Christina that shit! So mad I know what he meant and I didn’t even watch Eurovision. What was Play-Doh thinking? That mommy needs playtime too. Zing! Do you like […]
2014 will go down in history as a banner year. I was reflecting on the year trying to figure out why things went so well and I had a realization; 2014 was all about focus. Towards the end of the year I was trying to figure out the next mountain to climb. Then the shit […]
“I’d fuck him but he couldn’t spend the night.” commenter Jai (the man with the plan) Lucas Entertainment Hires Hung Argentinian Model Who Apparently Killed His Father and Brother (The Sword) I don’t know, I guess they should be more down to fuck since their holes were made for pounding. omg what?! (Gary shenanigans) Fixing […]
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