What does it mean when someone excludes themselves from dating an entire race based on a few personal experiences? Lonnell Williams You may want to watch these videos before you continue reading: The original interview Response from “the community” Follow-up from Zeric Don’t have time right now? I’ll give you the CliffNotes version: Black Cuban [...]
Quotes of the Week: Time Flies When You’re Having Fun
by Anthony on 11. Jan, 2012 in Quotes of the Week
I think I just shot a hadouken out of my penis. That can’t be good Damon! Ask me about my weiner!!!! If you insist Dante Are you a bottom? For the right price. Ewww you have sex for money? Ewww you have sex for free? Oh Adrian Yeah, it’s not cute that he’s trying to [...]
Review: VH1 Divas Celebrates Soul
by Anthony on 19. Dec, 2011 in music
VH1 is going through a painful identity crisis. Back in 1998 when the Divas franchise premiered, the channel was dominated by the likes of Natalie Imbruglia and Matchbox Twenty. They were still playing music videos (remember that)! There was no VH1 Soul, No Centric. BET was still black owned and operated. Pop music ruled and [...]
Keep On Going
by Anthony on 30. Oct, 2011 in personal
I needed answers. So I decided to go back to the beginning. Back to where it all began. The profile read: Good looking, masculine bottom looking for tops who know what they’re doing. Men of color especially. You will not be disappointed. The headline read: Good sex, NO strings attached. He opened his pics, [...]
Wishful Thinking
by Anthony on 27. Oct, 2011 in personal
I realize that I’m asking you for everything, but I feel like if I don’t ask for what I want then what’s the point? Private Practice – What We Have Here… I asked him to be my boyfriend. He said he didn’t want one. I suppose in hindsight I could’ve seen this coming. But truth [...]
Final Hour
by Anthony on 24. Oct, 2011 in personal
If you’re going to break up with someone you need to tell them face to face and you need to tell them why. You need to give them closure. I think the worse thing you could ever do to someone is not give them closure. Joey Diamond – Breakups I met a man once. Brown [...]
Emotional Rollercoaster
by Anthony on 19. Oct, 2011 in personal
Denial He really is a busy man. He’ll make time…eventually. Bargaining I don’t bargain, lol. That question about moving cities was to incite conversation/understanding. And I’m not going to apologize for liking dinner sans eyeballs. Depression Why are you so worried about cumming? Anger Those really are my friends, I didn’t hire them. Don’t get [...]
What is Love?
by Anthony on 17. Oct, 2011 in personal
The name of the show is “Perception” and we’re all a part of the cast. Do you know your lines? Gary – Because It’s Time 4 One “OMG, he’s in love with you!” He started to get agitated. I could tell by the look on his face he regretted it even came up in conversation. [...]
Sunday School – Cooking With Crab Meat
by Anthony on 17. Oct, 2011 in Sunday School
I was in love with a Cancer once and that is exactly what he turned out to be. He’s in remission right now, but every now and then that nigga requires a high dose of radiation. Trent Jackson – Calm Visiting Trent in the summer of 2008 remains one of my favorite trips to Los [...]
Review: Weekend
by Anthony on 16. Oct, 2011 in movies
Their arguments — affectionate but intense — reflect contrasting personalities, and the friction between them is what makes them, potentially, such an interesting couple. Each one, without quite saying so, is grappling with basic questions about love and identity. What can I mean to another person? Whom do I want to be with? Who do [...]
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