Sticks and stones may break my bones But chains and whips excite me Rihanna – S&M One of the consequences of having sex so readily available is professional porn producers have to kick it up a notch to keep the consumer interested in their product. This is similar to what happens in mainstream movie sequels [...]
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Mandingo in the Middle
Image from Epic Fail My current landlord offered me my new apartment on the spot. In fact, he showed me one that wasn’t even on the market yet. I was so confused, I didn’t even have all the paperwork ready. Why was he being so nice to me? “I’ve been doing this for thirty years [...]
Two Years Later
image from dryicons It was a risk moving away from the Quotes of the Week, but it helped me accomplish my major goal for year two: to get more intimate. Truth is, I’ve been holding back. It’s a thin line between too much information (TMI) and relevant background. But the feedback I’ve received as well [...]
Quotes of the Week – Old Habits Die Hard
At least he paid for it. commenter nooz – 70-year-old Queens prison chaplain arrested for paying inmate for oral sex (NY Daily News) I’ve spent more time on the toilet than I have in vaginas this week. under the weather adult video actor Keiran Lee Holy god I’m drooling at these Andrew Garfield Spiderman pics. [...]
My Sex Is Mental
from Growing Up Lammy It’s time for some mind sex, we ain’t got to take our clothes off yet We can burn the incense, and just chat Relax, I got the good vibrations Before we make love let’s have a good conversation Dead Prez – Mind Sex Before we go any further, I have a [...]
Let’s Get Married
Funny story: This weekend I attended my bestie from high school’s wedding. It was a glorious affair: sunset on the beach…I was surely taking notes. We were in Sayville, the town where you catch the ferries over to Fire Island. As we bowed our heads for the opening prayer, we were interrupted by cheers coming [...]
My Single Experience
I’m single because I’m not a verbally validating/affirming person…and a lot of these broken men need that. I’m single because in fact, I can often be verbally abusive. I get it from my mother. And if knowledge is power, my cuts tend to run deeper than most. I’m single because most men want to commit [...]
Sunday School – Fatal Attraction
Once you’re connected to a person you’re always connected to them and I really wish my ex-boyfriend would stay out of my body and out of my thoughts. In the Mix With Trent – Season 7 Premier While it’s important to know what kind of partner you want, it’s just as important to know what [...]
Spotlight: RDA
This weekend in Miami I had the pleasure meeting one of my favorite internet obsessions: RDA. Three sexy, smart, entertaining brothers doing their thing. And they seem to actually enjoy each other’s company! Rashad What a sweetheart. Come for the body, stay for the dimples. When you look up Southern hospitality in the dictionary you [...]
Sunday School – Get Myself Together
“When you’ve been the victim for such a long time, that’s all you know how to be.” Trent Jackson – In the Mix With Trent Season 9 Pre-show Reflecting on the birthday incident it became clear what the problem was: The problem was me. My momma called me last night, she said when nothing else [...]
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- Operating From A Deficit
- My Single Experience
- Preferences, Pride and Prejudice (Part 1 of 2)
- Mid-Life Crisis
