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The Idiot/Asshole Rule

Welcome back to TWAT: The World According to Tony. This is where we talk about life lessons I’ve learned over the years and incorporated into my world perspective. Simply put: binaries suck, especially when it comes to issues of sex and sexuality. Life is full of shades of grey and it’s important to talk about [...]

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Closets Come in Many Shapes and Sizes

Stop me if you’ve heard this one before: anti-gay zealot turns out to be a hypocrite and an undercover homosexual himself. Wait, you have heard that one before? I think what’s being left out of the George Rekers commentary is how complex issues of internalized homophobia and coming out are. It may seem like semantics, [...]

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Vote on Special Edition New York City Condoms

I am constantly amazed at the number of people who don’t use condoms when they have penetrative sex. Do people not care because HIV isn’t the death sentence it used to be?

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The Rules of Engagement 2010

The Rules of Engagement 2009 worked out so well! New city, new job, new apartment, new energy…life is good. The new year for me is really about taking this new foundation and building on it to maximize growth.

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Two Kinds of Truth

Welcome back to TWAT: The World According to Tony. This is where we talk about life lessons I’ve learned over the years and incorporated into my world perspective. Today’s theory comes from Divorce Court.

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The One Theory

Some of you may be wondering what exactly this TWAT category is all about. Well it stands for The World According to Tony.

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Men Always Want The Control

aka My Single Experience I was watching Shark Tank Sunday night (side note: this is really the best new show of the summer. Mark Burnett does it again).

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The Rules of Engagement 2009

For the last two Januarys, author Trent Jackson started the year off right by making a list of rules to guide his actions for the upcoming year. I thought it was a very useful exercise, so I came up with my own list for 2009.

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