Tag Archives: Juven

Quotes of the Week: Crash and Burn

Crashburn

What a bunch of Ding Dongs!
Stop you’re tickling my Funny Bone!
Ho Ho! Too funny!
He should be paid well, even if his company is bankrupt it still is making a lot of bread.
This is why we can’t have a serious conversation about unions. (Think Progressive)

People now offering sex and money in exchange for Twinkies on Craigslist.
Speaking of Hostess

Ugh I’m an hour late to my own gang bang.
I hate it when that happens gayboyproblems

This Christina Aguilera performance looks like a night in West Hollywood after 2 ecstasy tabs.
Dave Buchansky AMA commentary via Twitter

Cody Belew, what you just performed is what i hope my heaven would be like. sassy gay men, black leather, chains and twerking.
Speaking of crazy performances from the mind of Christina Aguilera. The Voice is amazing this season

…this is fucking disgusting. It happens everywhere in the world except they’re normally fighting over food and water…
commenter BooFinch It Wouldn’t Be Black Friday Without Shoppers Fighting Over Cheap Electronics (Gawker)

Yikes. This was harder to watch than that tragic seal video yesterday.
What’s Cool Now?: Graffiti, Breakdancing and What the Kids Call Beatboxing (Gawker)

Joe Biden reminds me of my uncle that would give me beer and teach me cuss words.
iDXR with a point

Y’all didn’t get your gift card? Guess I got mines faster since I’m not too far from the White House.
Romney: Obama Won Because Of ‘Gifts’ To Blacks, Hispanics And Young Voters (Wa2 via Andre’s FB)

Lessons from Birth of a Nation: ultimately, it’s those slick talking mulattoes you’ve really got to worry about.
Mychal Denzel Smith via Twitter

rickroberts: Counting down…how long will it take for a bitter, crabby queen to complain about age, twink, smooth, yada yada?
BitterCrabbyQUeen: WTF QUEERTY!?!?!! These kiddies are waaay too young and very twinky and too smooth…yada yada yada!!!
2 Strong Young Men Pose For the Camera Now Click

People against gay marriage say it’s hard to explain it to kids. By that logic, we should also ban physics, yeast, time zones, and Inception.
David Sawyer via Twitter

I can’t stress enough that New York City, in many places, is nowhere near back to “normal.”
Anthony De Rosa’s right…even today

Sometimes folks don’t learn until you leave!
Juven via Twitter

Moving From HIV Prevention to HIV Awareness

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Pharaohc1ous on Twitter the other day

The strangest thing happened last year:

One of the leading adult video stars in urban gay porn today took to his Xtube account to make a public service announcement about HIV testing. In the three minute video he encourages those watching to know their status (if they don’t already). The word condom is never used nor is there advice on what to do if you end up testing positive.

And it left me feeling some kind of way.

Full disclosure: Trap Boyy is one of my favorite cumdumpsters. I was a fan long before Black Rayne decided to build a separate imprint around him. He’s cute, seems like a nice guy and takes cum deep in every orifice like he needs it to stay alive. I wouldn’t mind throwing down with him.

Having said that, I’m not sure if his point translated or if it was a good message at that. All his stats seemed to be right and testing is paramount in ending the HIV epidemic, especially among black gay/bisexual men. But was the messenger overshadowing the message?

If a porn person best known for barebacking pleads with you to go get tested for HIV, does it make a sound?

The comments were even more interesting. They fell into two major categories: (a) those who championed the video saying it was great to see someone in the industry speak on the issue and (b) those who called Trap Boyy a hypocrite for essentially invoking “do as I say, not as I do.”

And then it occurred to me: this wasn’t the first time this happened. Early in 2011 I was browsing Youtube looking for men of color speaking on HIV/AIDS as I prepared a post on National HIV testing day. I stumbled upon this cutie talking about World AIDS day. Similar mechanics: he tells everyone to get tested but doesn’t mention safer sex (read: condoms).

It wasn’t until weeks later I realized Juven was a fairly well known, up and coming AmPro porn actor who also didn’t use condoms in most of his videos.

I’ve been wresting with this for over a year now looking for answers. As someone who went thru puberty in the nineties, condoms were shoved down my throat (and it worked). I use them pretty consistently and have managed to stay HIV negative for ten years.

But the kids nowadays, the ones sexually coming up in the 2000’s, don’t seem all that concerned about HIV. Serosorting seems to be more of a priority these days than condoms. Both Trap Boyy and Juven’s messages are consistent in asking people to know their status and that of their partners. The burden stops there.

At some point (while I wasn’t looking) we moved from HIV prevention to HIV awareness.

Public health as an industry has realized this too as treatment as prevention has become the new thing. We can’t stop people from becoming infected, but we can suppress their viral load to make it harder to pass HIV to someone else.

I hate to be Debby Downer, but color me unimpressed.

It got me thinking, if the next generation doesn’t care about HIV, why should I?

(to be continued)

Quotes of the Week: Summer Shitshow

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Joey Lawrence: Chippendale

Girl you suckin’ dick you can’t trust!
Overheard by Trent Jackson

There’s no “I” in gangbang.
Right about that Juven

You can take it baby, I believe in you!
Steve Pena coaching husband Brent Everett who didn’t want to bottom yesterday, lol

I wanted him to fuck me no matter what. And no consequence seemed insurmountable.
Rolando (rock.paper.sissy)

Sometimes I just wanna karate chop people in the street.
I would love to see that Derrick

None of the new interns are ticklish, so that was awkward.
Same here Conan

The only way I’m buying a laptop that starts at $2200 is if it blows me when I get lonely.
@bingethinker isn’t getting the new Mackbook Pro with retina display

I wish Prometheus was called Alien: Havana Nights.
Brian Lynch via Twitter

Something tells me The New Green Lantern will have brown smudges on his power ring.
This is why we can’t have nice things like gay superheros

I dunno how young girls be messin wit these lil boys. Them MFers stink.
Absolutely true Gary. Ugh

Fake tits, fake lips, fake lashes, fake hair, fake nails…and these hoes out here looking for a “REAL” man. Smh
Humor or Truth via Twitter

Happily dating/fucking the same partner without making it “official.” #2012
Amidion may be on to something here

It’s okay to be wrong. It’s not okay, however, to not acknowledge it.
Gabe Bondoc via Twitter

Gemini will distance themselves if they end up in pointless situations or among people who are not engaging.
Indeed we do

I don’t always tell people I’m cutting them off. I’ll just silently do it.
The best way to do it really

Sometimes the way to heal yourself is by expressing your rage.
Yolo Akili via Twitter

I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m not compromising that to fit into this ideal gay American image. Even if it means no one will want me.
I’m with you Ranity

It’s nice to feel wanted.
Isn’t it Ruben?

Quotes of the Week – Generation Ratchet

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Watching Hugh Hefner have sex must be like watching someone try to puncture a Capri Sun pouch with an earthworm.
Jenny Johnson via Twitter

There are some things you don’t do. Getting gang-banged in front of your mother is one.
commenter Fair intoit – Sin’s Decollaring (The Upper Floor) NSFW!

We’re going to have a pizza party to celebrate the arrival of [my new assistant].
Ooh, at Chucky Cheese?!
Na, they don’t let me play in the balls any more.
That’s what she said!
(Shit my former assistant says)

It’s a shame I can’t log on to Adam4Adam without my 8th grade English teacher bothering me.
Oh NOs Ed!

This isn’t a laughing matter at all, but one of my friends told me taking a piss was “at a medium spice, not quite habanero yet.”
He might want to get that checked out @_bingethinker!

Never trust a big dick and a firm handshake.
Now now @Anti_Intellect

Cock-worship is the sincerest form of flattery.
Don’t forget the balls Jeremy!

Think I’m gonna wear basketball shorts at the gym with no draws. Give all the old white people a lil thrill!
DL Dude feeling charitable

White people only like diversity when it comes to restaurants.
Christian Lander

Eating yo pussy like cold pizza.
Not the visuals I wanted Juven!

When is the To Catch A Predator reunion show?
Let me know when it’s on Blowout!

So many beautiful young men wasted on the desires of the dick!!
Fabled Verse has been cranky lately

Clueless has convinced a generation of students that lobbying for higher grades for shit work is a good substitute for studying.
Professor Karsh has been cranky too

You know your Pastor’s a little too hip when he titles his sermon “If Jesus was on Facebook, would you be tagged in pictures with him?”
This is why I don’t go to church any more @de_profundis!

I don’t need a stable relationship, I just need a stable internet connection.
Cosign!

Too many funerals, not enough graduations. Too many baby showers, not enough weddings.
Yves Saint Laurent via Twitter

When your past calls, don’t answer. It has nothing new to say.
Chris Brown parody

Quotes of the Week – Ending 12.26.10

Are you bad with people and hate money? Consider grad school!
Rob Delaney via Twitter

My Dad’s all “how’s that job search going?” and I’m all “stop yelling at me” and he’s all “calm down” and I’m all “bye.”
White Girl Problems via Twitter

You continuing to date strong minded men and not expecting to submit is like me continuing to date Puerto Ricans and not expecting a few tempers along the way.

Anyone know how to get eggnog out of a leopard-skin Speedo?
Conan O’Brien via Twitter
(warm water and lemon juice…don’t ask)

Listerine is gay abortion.
TheXDExperience via Twitter

Got an email from Netflix saying I returned a personal DVD instead of the DVD I rented. I hope it wasn’t porn…that would be embarrassing!
Yes it would Will McNair

My Spanish isn’t great so I can’t be 100% certain but I’m pretty sure I was just offered sex in exchange for a cup of coffee.
Adventures in Puerto Rico with Mr. Jones

If Robyn doesn’t win a Grammy there is no fucking justice in this world.
Amen ralphfv

I’ve never seen the show but this dude is YUMMY!
commenter Howdy Doody Report: Simon Baker Strikes $30 Million Deal with Warner Bros. (omg)

Who the fuck masturbates in the doggy style position?!
Hershey reviews Black Swan

Is that a banana in that guy’s pocket or is he just happy to see me?
womp womp Simon Dexter

The cunts work for Target and the trade work for Walmart.
WhatsTheT via Twitter
(true story)

I can’t wait for the holidays to be over so I can finally stop sucking my gut in.
Jeremy via Twitter
(cosign)

Can’t wait for Christmas to be over so I can go back to being mean.
Mike Huntington via Twitter
(that too)

If you can’t take two chorizos in your culo at one time then I can’t love you.
Juven breaking my heart

Some dudes should just keep their clothes off because that’s the only time they’re cute.
Justin with a good point

What’s this about people in line for Jordans? I bet some of the same people that were in line for those Section 8 spots.
my money’s on Gary

You know sometimes I really hate my community(s) for how brainwashed they are…so programmed to fit stereotypes.
Wa2 via Twitter

The battle is perennial; yet each of us in our time must fight.
Cornel West via Twitter

When you’re honest and live authentically, you live a lonely existence.
Trent Jackson telling it like it is

It’s hard to hide my disgust, but I’m working on it.
Urban Prince via Twitter
(me too)

My heart never had a hero.
Kevin Simmons via Twitter
(mine neither)

Fine line between masochist and optimist.
Julian via Twitter

It’s hard waiting for something that might never happen, but it’s harder to give up when you know it’s everything you want.