Image from Epic Fail My current landlord offered me my new apartment on the spot. In fact, he showed me one that wasn’t even on the market yet. I was so confused, I didn’t even have all the paperwork ready. Why was he being so nice to me? “I’ve been doing this for thirty years [...]
My Sex Is Mental
by Anthony on 11. Jul, 2011 in sex & relationships
from Growing Up Lammy It’s time for some mind sex, we ain’t got to take our clothes off yet We can burn the incense, and just chat Relax, I got the good vibrations Before we make love let’s have a good conversation Dead Prez – Mind Sex Before we go any further, I have a [...]
Spotlight: Beyond Masculinity
by Anthony on 08. Mar, 2011 in spotlight
As fabulous as I am, it’s about time I introduce you to some other sex masters doing great work. Trevor Hoppe, a fellow critical masculinity scholar edited this really great anthology called Beyond Masculinity. It’s a wonderful collection of queer men’s essays on gender and politics. With a wide range of topics, experiences and decent [...]
Spotlight: ilikejoaquin
by Anthony on 24. Feb, 2011 in spotlight
In an effort to give you more of why you’re probably here; to explore the intersections of race and sexuality, we’re introducing this new category. I can’t think of a person I’d like to share more with my readers. I started watching Joaquin in 2008, in the heydays of YouTube. I was arbitrarily searching for [...]
My Masculinity, My Femininity, My Androgyny
by Anthony on 01. Feb, 2011 in personal
I don’t understand men. I don’t even understand what I don’t understand about them. They’re a most inscrutable bunch, really. Maureen Dowd – Are Men Necessary?: When Sexes Collide I don’t have any brothers. I had limited contact with my uncles growing up (most of whom are now dead). My father was never around (always [...]
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