What does it mean when someone excludes themselves from dating an entire race based on a few personal experiences? Lonnell Williams You may want to watch these videos before you continue reading: The original interview Response from “the community” Follow-up from Zeric Don’t have time right now? I’ll give you the CliffNotes version: Black Cuban [...]
Tag Archives: sexual stereotypes
When Racism Meets Masturbation
It all happened so fast… I woke up like I always do. If up to me, I prefer having “me time” in the morning; it starts the day off right. I was in the mood for some thugged-out Latin action, so I turned to one of my favorite smut sites: bilatinmen (NSFW). Usually I don’t [...]
Looking for Love (In All the Wrong Races)
Boy, boys, all type of boys. Black, White, Puerto Rican, Chinese boys… – Missy Elliott: Work It When I was in first grade I had three best friends: One was Black. One was White. And the other was half Chinese and half Puerto Rican. From a very young age, I have been exposed to other [...]
Of Boyfriends and Beauty Bias
And think about it this way. Capitalism always trumps beauty—because it trumps everything. -Raina Kelley; Beauty Is Defined, and Not By You Everyone get out a pen and paper! There’s this exercise I like to do with people when talking about attraction. It’s a free-write to a simple question: Describe your ideal partner. No other [...]
Closets Come in Many Shapes and Sizes
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before: anti-gay zealot turns out to be a hypocrite and an undercover homosexual himself. Wait, you have heard that one before? I think what’s being left out of the George Rekers commentary is how complex issues of internalized homophobia and coming out are. It may seem like semantics, [...]
Quotes of the Week – Ending 12.20.09
(screaming and crying) I’m no one’s cum receptacle!! LOL. My cousin told me gay marriage is not right! I told her neither is having four kids out of wedlock but I don’t judge. Devious Aga via Twitter You still didn’t tell me what you like in bed. If I tell you what I like, is [...]
Xem VanAdams Celebrates One Year on Youtube
A year ago today, Xem Van Adams began conquering the world “one word at a time.”
Best of Youtube Grinding
THIS POST IS STRICTLY FOR THE LADIES!! (womp womp) Can someone throw me a frickin bone here?! I swear if I were trying to use this blog as a forum to dispel sexual stereotypes, especially about black men, I have my work cut out for me.
White Men Have Sex with Horses Too
When was the last time a white man having sex with an animal made national news? Can’t think of anything? Me neither.
E Lynn Harris’ Death Used to Perpetuate “Down Low” Stereotype
This really hasn’t been a good month for famous people I like. Barely recovered from the news of Walter Cronkite’s passing and now this.
- Christina Aguilera Should Have Done the Michael Jackson Grammy Tribute
- Operating From A Deficit
- My Single Experience
- Preferences, Pride and Prejudice (Part 1 of 2)
- Mid-Life Crisis
- Preferences, Pride and Prejudice (Part 1 of 2)
- Quotes of the Week: Time Flies When You’re Having Fun
- Review: VH1 Divas Celebrates Soul
- Keep On Going
- Wishful Thinking
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Trent Jackson: The bottom line, he is in pain, has had some bad e...
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@GeraldIsham: This is a very interesting topic that is often a p...
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@GaryTylone: I'm eager to see part 2, however, this post has so...
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Lonnell Williams: Thanks for weighing in on this important conversat...
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karsh: "What kind of a man will let you into his body, bu...
